Sunday 11 November, 2007

Dry your eyes, mate

Filed under: Life, Music

Shortly after my daughter was born, I made up a little tune that I sang to her. Actually, tune is flattery; ditty would be better. It consists of a mere two bars (or measures, as I just found out they're called in the US), and if sung in D major, would read as follows:

Maya

(My lack of perfect pitch means that I don't know whether I'm singing it in D major, and indeed the key probably changes from one rendition to the next.)

For some unknown reason, no matter what's upsetting her, singing this ditty to her over and over again seems to mesmerise her, and her tears always turn to smiles immediately. The more tearful she is, the faster I sing it. And it never fails to work.

Give it a go on your own children, and let me know whether it's my dulcet voice or the tune itself thats working miracles. Or my easily-pleased daughter.


Posted by dan at 4:58am | Permalink | Comments (3) | Trackbacks (0)
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Dan,

My guess would be you've created some kind of "anchor", so that your daughter subconsciously associates the sound of your voice singing that tune with the good feelings she remembers from previously being with her dad.
I wonder if a good quality audio recording would have the same effect without you being there? Perhaps she may also associate the sight and smell of you with good feelings.

Whenever my son (5 and a bit) has a nightmare or is feeling rough, I say to him "Hey, remember that time we made a boat out of sand on the beach?" (we spent a whole very happy day in that thing!!) and it changes his mood in an instant.
Easy peasy really - wouldn't work though, of course, if you weren't a great dad and hadn't helped create those 'nice' feelings in the first place to anchor to.

Posted by Nick Robinson 9:06am, Tuesday 13 November 2007

I have perfect pitch, give me an 'H'.

Posted by Beethoven, 4:35am, Monday 19 November 2007

Though you might be interested:

http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=the-secret-to-raising-smart-kids&print=true

Posted by Fast Freddie 1:12am, Thursday 29 November 2007
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